She had a miscarriage and now want to return pregnant. or that doctors advised her to rest longer, if necessary out of a job. "It's hard to left a long career that I pioneered,How is the solution?"Seriousness
Your confusion is far more based on the lack of seriousness to examine more deeply and seriously in an effort to make a decision. And who can take decisions in this case is your own.
Success to decide it could be assisted by others, including her husband, but the nature of the assistance is to give or add information. With that information, you can create a number of alternatives that you ultimately have to choose the most suitable.
Two Questions Group
In this case I tried to help by asking a few questions with the thought behind the question.
First: What actually be your main desire in life right now? Do you really need the experience of being a successful woman in a career? Is if you do not succeed in the career world, you will feel a total failure as a person? Is the meaning of your life will decline or disappear in the absence of a career for the time being?
Second: What is the ultimate fantasy for your life to settle down? Do you want to achieve or family longing for happiness which must be completed by the child? Does the presence of children in a marriage has a very important meaning for you as a woman? Do you expect the child as a source of both happiness with your husband?
Isn't there a child in a marriage can bring things more negative for the life ahead?
This is just a few of the questions that require reflection and the answer really from you personally.
Take consequence
If your answers to questions about career proceed from a very deep need for recognition that the career is everything for you and your husband, so the consequences need to be considered.
Each choice is always accompanied by a certain consequence. This is where the importance for you to weigh or calculate the consequences which must be taken and face of each option.
One of the consequences and choose the option to stay and pursue a future career in the world is that you really may not be a mother in the near future. This is due to physical conditions that have not or are not possible.
There are many other consequences that can be described more of your choice to continue a career. Among others at one point suddenly the husband desperately wanted a child. Suddenly you realize one day want to have children, but age was not possible. How did you have to fill in life when suddenly felt lonely because of the absence of children at home?
If you have an answer to the question of the two groups, which want to and feel means or means to be a mother, could feel the birth, nurture, educate, and raise a child, it also has a number of consequences.
The consequence was clear already in sight is to reduce activity, in this case may be stopped from working for a while. There are still other consequences, for example, you must face the fact that for the loss of the social environment which is owned today.
Other consequences may be willing to accept money from her husband and may have to restrict the freedom to purchase private purposes so as not to disrupt the household expenses.
ABC Concept
There is a concept that teaches us to be more focused in achieving the level or desired form of life. The concept was first correctly emphasizes recognition of what we most want in life.
This desire is not just going to happy, happy, relaxed, rich, which is basically too abstract to understand. What is meant by what you most wants is something more concrete, specific, measurable by time, cost, or level, such as what, when, what, where.
During the answer about wanting to be what, when, where and so it was not yet specific and concrete, you really do not have a clear desire and direction. This often makes you still confused.
And if you try to try to achieve it, the work done is often less effective. Therefore, ambition (A) must be clear. If already have or can determine what is most desirable, it was not mean that you will definitely make it.
There is no such desire can be fulfilled without an attempt to achieve it, even if some conditions are properly considered. Whether or not done what we desire is still to be largely determined by the strong and weak or large and small businesses ( B ) we headed goal.
The third element is important to be explored is anything that is a condition (C) or the fact that can support or hinder the achievement of this activity. The definition of the condition or fact are owned healthcare, financial condition, moral and material support from people who expected, natural conditions, the atmosphere of family life, and the like.
We often forget that the supporting factors are important in achieving the target. Moreover, in family life and social, others need to be taken into consideration. Because we may be surprised to find a fact that one family member can suddenly emerged as a barrier.
Confused, waiting to see how later, depending on the circumstances, only the reasons for not doing a real effort. Maybe because they have not explained your wishes, may also not enough information what I can to support and not.
I think the description of the three elements in the concept that I can help you to start thinking about, then make a decision and do something.
