Not easy being infertile couples or difficulty having children. Many people give advice to keep trying and be patient. But there are two words that do not want to hear these infertile couples. What's that?

Two words are 'Just Relax'. It's easy to say that other people, but for infertile couples seemed like an impossible directions. How can one feel calm when it entered the age of vulnerable pregnant but had also given the signs contain. While others can only say relax.

Although a fertility clinic in Boston reveals the relationship between relaxation techniques with high success in an IVF program, or in vitro fertilization (IVF). Based on the results of the study, patients who had stress management program by Dr. Alice Domar has a higher success in the process of IVF compared with patients who did not attend the program.

Still, for some women consider "relax" is not a cure or a good solution to get pregnant quickly. Because many things that influence them and not just casual words to help someone to get pregnant.

"That is one part of the 'advice' I often hear when you're struggling to get pregnant. The words themselves have made me really desperate. And I need a medical efforts for 6 years to finally get pregnant," said one a mother who is difficult to conceive, as quoted from the Health.

Further, it tells the woman when there are people who provide such advice, she chose to go. She would like a madman if returned these words and hope others are more concerned about her.

Hugh S. Taylor, MD, a professor and Head of Division Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility at Yale University School of Medicine said the program needed for infertile couples is more than just telling someone to relax. It takes a more comprehensive program between the mind and body to help her to get pregnant.

"It is difficult for someone who has problems with fertility listening to the advice 'just relax', because a lot of psychological research that shows the pressure of this condition is almost equivalent to the pressure experienced by chronic patients," said Taylor.

It is not easy to get the pregnancy, necessary programs and a positive mind in determining the success of fertility treatments. Usually women are more able to hear this advice from his doctor and not from friends or family.